Why Being A Gay Porn Star Is Hard

BECOMING A GAY PORN STAR JOB REQUIREMENTS

Most people love sex, and if you’re reading this site then there’s a fair chance you are thinking of being A Gay Porn Star. Omaybe you want to know how to make home made porn? You love dick, ass or any other body part of a male body. We watch gay porn and we might think – sheesh, that dude is atrocious, I can fuck better than he can.

Or you might be sitting there thinking that jerking off with your Fleshlight is going to be more exciting than continuing watching that film. That’s the thing; on the surface as we are watching we think that porn stars have a fairly easy job. They get paid to have sex with handsome people with amazing asses and equally amazing and massive cocks that we would only dream of possessing.

Now if we were thinking about getting paid to have sex the majority of us would be sporting a permanent hard on with anticipation and heading off to the shops to buy all the things we never could.

Let me burst the bubble of that dream though.

Yes, it’s sex. Yes, the people are amazing and handsome and dream bed buddies.  What many people forget is that being a porn star is a job. A hard job with lots of behind the scenes stuff that goes into making a film.

This article is going to explore five industry facts that might change your outlook and appreciation of porn.

FUN PARTS OF SEX ARE NOT FUN TO FILM

Normal, everyday sex is about the enjoyment of two bodies. Lust, love, and passion is what drives two (or more) people to engage in sexual activity.

Porn on the other hand is not about that. It’s about how good it looks on the camera. And that means that someone is up in your face telling you exactly how to move. Pose and getting the most artistic position out of your thrusting cock. That might even mean engaging in a position where someone is standing behind you supporting you. So that they can get the perfect shot.

This might mean that the bottom is being pounded in ways that they were never meant to be pounded. But simply looks good on camera. Or he might even be stuck with some form of blow up dildo in his ass between scenes in order to ensure that his muscles don’t relax too much.

That’s right, the sex in porn might look like they’re enjoying it.

But they could be very uncomfortable.

This also goes for deep throating and that’s not always awesome. Consider this. If a guy is sucking you off for a hardcore deep throat scene it needs to be remembered that you’re filming a movie. The universal and single rule of movies is that very little gets filmed right in the first go.

Filming takes a while.

So in the end, he might get tired and sore, and eventually you might start feeling the molars on the head of your dick. Being paid to receive oral sex in this fashion might be very similar to getting to the dentist as the viewer insists on the star jack hammering it down his co-stars throat.

Then there’s the lubricant, and by its very nature it gets on everything especially good quality silicone lubricant which doesn’t show on camera. In an interview with a porn star, he said that he has often shot scenes in his apartment. The lubricant gets on the hardwood floor and then you’re basically slipping and sliding for days.

DOUBLE STANDARDS BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT PORN

Many industry cross over’s, including Lance Hart and Danny D are known as cross over’s. They’ll do both straight and gay porn. In the industry this can often be considered a bad thing – and this is where it gets difficult for gay for pay actors.

A lot of female porn actresses will often refuse to work with cross over actors. Why? There’s a different standard of STI testing between gay scenes and hetero scenes.

Heterosexual porn does not wear condoms, but the STI program is a very rigorous procedure. Mistakes happen though. In gay porn all anal is filmed with a condom. There are productions that do not use condoms for their bareback scenes, but the processes in this part of the industry are some of the strictest around. It might be easier to get into fort Knox than to do bareback gay porn.

So the girls won’t work with the cross over guys because they do gay porn, yet the guys are wearing condoms and the girls are not? Therefore, the hetero industry thinks that the gay side is a little odd and vice versa.

ANAL SEX SCENES

It can be messy. You might think that three hours of pounding against your prostate is going to be a tonne of fun. But wait till you run out of lubricant, or the condom snaps or one of a multitude of other things happen. Not to mention anyone’s concerns in regards to their prostate health!

Just because a guy doesn’t look big on screen, doesn’t mean that he’s not big. Keep in mind that there’s little camera tricks to make things look bigger and smaller when they’re on the screen.

So if you’re sitting there eyeing off some dude on grindr. Thinking that you can take that and then he arrives and nearly splits you in two. Then you’ve learned my new mantra when it comes to anal sex. You will never know what it will feel like until it gets pushed into your ass. Then you’ll know.

Anal sex is all about preparation, and it’s all about the warm up.

To warm up you’re going to need your own set of man toys for sex that you can use every time you’re about to bottom. If you’re shooting an anal scene you have to be clean. For that you’re going to need an enema. Asses, are asses so you might find that after a few hours of filming you’ve digested your last meal and you have to clean out again.

It’s never ending.

ERECTIONS ARE HARD

Oh man I love that pun. But seriously, maintaining an erection is difficult sometimes. Every man has experienced it. You’re horny as all hell, you want to bone this dude in front of you, or be boned, and the flag simply isn’t flying.

You want the erection, you need the erection, the erection at that point in time would have been very handy to have, but it simply wasn’t showing.

It always seems to be the case that porn stars have amazing and massive cocks. But sometimes, they’re not exactly natural. They have used techniques such as jelqing and stretching. As well as using pumps to achieve that massive look. Not to mention, camera angles.

So, even though they might seem hard and enormous all the time.

Porn actors are not exempt from erections that might be hiding. Since they’re 90 percent mental, in most cases it’s simply about relaxing. Don’t stress and simply let the crew know that you need a few minutes and that they might need a soft drink. Most of the time, taking the pressure off the situation will fix the issue.

Other times the actor might need more, like pills, herbal Viagra’s, and injections. It’s not uncommon for the boys to be taking this.

FETISH PORN

Is the easiest money that anyone will ever make. Sometimes. Fetish can be both the easiest and hardest. Say for example you’re doing bondage porn. You might be tied up.

Guarantee the second the zip locks are applied you’ll get an itch. Now not only do you have to deal with the itch. But you’re going to need to stay hard the entire time as well. That’s inclusive of the time that is spent when you’re medical sounding.

A flaccid cock during a sounding scene, is simply not sexy at all.  One of the hidden bonuses of fetish porn is that you might discover a long lost fetish. Or realise that you’re into something that you never thought you would be.

Being a porn star is clearly not that easy

Whilst it’s not necessarily something that people grow up and dream to be – there are a lot of boys out there eagerly awaiting their 18^th birthday so that they can be fresh into the film movies to make money.

They start off well with their innocence, baby faces and freshness. But if they don’t develop the skills or handle the pressure then they will be very quickly cast aside into the bushes. Few people have the stamina and mind set to make it work, but when they do, they’re bloody good at it.